A Wedding dress   1994 – 1997 Berlin, Germany We married in Greece and in Japan when we were just over 20. I wore this dress on August 20, 1994 in Kavala, Greece. We had 800 guests. A Greek magazine reported on the wedding of 3 countries. One radio station even had a special coverage. Against our will, we became rather known there, which was followed by many nosy questions from different people pointing their fingers at us. Our goal was a happy home with many children. But Mother Nature did not deliver – and couldn’t children wait until the end of our studies? It was very important to him, a very happy man from the beginning, to be a young father. Finally, nothing was missing... Slowly, the page turned. Impatience tipped the scales and brought a dark gray sky over our initial happiness, built a thick white wall between our fields of vision that stifled each feeling in its embryo. On the other hand, some things became clear on his side that moved me to separate and after a while to return to Germany, but not to my home town, Stuttgart. Berlin won me over and I am finding more and more in this town and in the people that love me. I started to feel at home here and even have a family. It is the best moment- to be an independent grown up offering a safe thread of life to a small being, and thus not to be alone.